Moods Change Like the Weather:

Inviting gratitude and acceptance of our emotions through meditation.

The human brain has a natural tendency to remember negative experiences more than positive ones. Psychologists refer to this as negativity bias. “Our brains are wired to scout for the bad stuff and fixate on the threat”, says Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Senior Fellow of UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center.

Our brain, by function and development, is a very “old” organ. The part of our brain that is the least developed is the amygdala, which is responsible for fight, flight, or freeze reactions to emotional experiences. This inner brain was crucial when we were hunter-gatherers, as we needed to remain ever-vigilant of threats to our survival. 

As humans have evolved, this part of the brain has remained essentially undeveloped. On the other hand, the most significant part of the brain, the cerebral cortex, has evolved and continues to develop. This frontal area is responsible for many higher-order functions such as memory, perception and interpretation. Meditation and mindfulness stimulate the frontal area of the brain as well as the parasympathetic nervous system, which originates in the brain stem, and is responsible for relaxation. 

Mindfulness can help us notice thoughts and sensations in the present moment and calm our amygdala. When teaching mindfulness of emotions in the classroom, I encourage students to describe them as types of weather, such as stormy, cloudy, rainy, and sunny. Each child perceives their mood, or internal weather, differently, so “cloudy” for one child may mean feeling introspective, while for another it could mean loneliness. It doesn’t matter which weather pattern we use to describe our mood, and by labeling emotions, we move the experience out of the amygdala to the frontal cortex, which makes it possible to use mindfulness to diffuse the emotion. 

Inviting gratitude is a meditation practice for dealing with changing moods. After noticing our internal weather, we can invite gratitude as a way to accept the emotions being felt in the body. Asking the question, “What am I grateful for right now?” is a way to diffuse emotions and refocus the mind. With practice, your moods will settle as the mind chooses a more positive focus. Finding just one or two things to be grateful for may be enough to generate positivity and to settle your mind’s attention away from an uncomfortable mood to a more positive present-moment awareness. When we practice gratitude, we invite compassion and appreciation into our life experiences, which engages the parasympathetic nervous system.

“There is a 90-second window of opportunity during which we can choose to allow an emotion to flow through our body.”

If you attempt to ignore or push away emotions, they may become more intense. Noticing what you are feeling is the first step in accepting your moods. For example, anger makes the heart rate increase. This increase may send excess heat to our palms and face, or you may experience “a lump” in the abdomen or ches,t which is stuck negative energy. Once we become aware of where in the body we are experiencing sensations, mindfulness can be used to label the associated emotion. Anger can be restated as “tightness”, “choppy breathing,” or even “sweaty palms”. By labeling the emotion with a neutral phrase and noticing the sensation in the body, we move the feelings through the mind, into the body and eventually out with the breath. 

Once you notice your internal weather, there is a window of about 90 seconds during which we can shift focus away from thoughts and invite mindfulness awareness, thereby preventing the emotion from escalating. Noticing where an emotion is manifesting in your body helps to interrupt the pattern of escalation and then engaging in mindful breathing practices can be quite calming. Lengthening the exhale is said to invite the “rest and digest” effect of the parasympathetic nervous system. Breathing in for a count of four and exhaling for a count of six is one example of mindful breathing. There are many other breathing practices that help move emotions out of the amygdala and into the frontal cortex, allowing us to regulate our moods through mindfulness meditation. 

If you’re interested in learning more about the benefits of meditation for moods, Mindful Frontiers offers a variety of guided meditation practices on Insight Timer, a user-friendly worldwide platform. You can download the app on your phone or visit the website for free or with a subscription.

Anne-Marie Emanuelli is the founder and Creative Director at Mindful Frontiers LLC. Mindful Frontiers is a Benefit Corporation (BCorp) based in Taos, New Mexico, dedicated to promoting community wellness through meditation. We offer a variety of mindfulness & meditation tools designed to support and nurture individuals and groups with positive social-emotional growth. Our mission is to “welcome a mindful future, one present moment at a time,” guiding people towards greater awareness, emotional balance, and a deeper connection with themselves and others. Anne-Marie is a certified meditation leader and a certified labyrinth facilitator. Featured practices can be found on the Insight Timer app. Our website is ⁠MindfulFrontiers.net⁠.

A version was initially published in The Taos News, July 17, 2025.